A digital testament, quietly kept

Your words, delivered when it matters.

Write letters to the people you love, and to the people who’d need to keep things running. Check in with one tap. If you ever go quiet, WhenYouGone follows the steps you chose, and only then delivers your words.

  • Free to start
  • From $12 a year, cancel any time
  • Stop anytime with one tap
Hands writing a letter at a sunlit wooden table, a cup of tea beside the notebook.

Most days, nothing happens. You tap I’m OK and get on with your life. That’s the point.

How it works

Four calm steps. Ten minutes, once.

Set it up on a quiet evening. Then let it sit in the background, the way a sealed letter waits in a drawer.

  1. 01

    Write your letters

    Up to ten letters: to a partner, a child, a friend, a teammate. Say the things that matter, and the practical things too. Add a video message to any letter, too.

  2. 02

    Set your check-in rhythm

    Every three days, every week, every month. You choose. Open the link or the app and tap “I’m OK”.

  3. 03

    Design your procedure

    Decide what happens if you go quiet: ask again, ask someone you trust, wait. Up to 100 careful steps.

  4. 04

    We deliver only if you go silent

    Your letters stay sealed. Only when every step has passed without a word from you are they delivered.

The procedure

Nothing is sent on a hunch.

You design what happens if you miss a check-in, step by step, with as much patience as you like. Here’s one example. Yours can be shorter, longer, or include several trusted people.

  1. Day 0

    A gentle check-in

    By email, SMS or push. One tap and the clock resets.

  2. +24 hours

    We ask again

    Maybe you were travelling, or the phone was off.

  3. +3 days

    We ask someone you trust

    “Is Anna OK?” If they answer “They’re OK”, everything stops. “Something is wrong” moves straight to the next step.

  4. +5 days

    A quiet pause

    Room for life to be complicated. You can still check in.

  5. Only then

    Your letters are delivered

    Each one to its recipient, exactly as you wrote it.

At any moment, a single check-in from you (or “they’re OK” from a trusted contact) cancels everything.

A hand holding a phone with a warm glowing notification next to a cup of coffee in morning light.
Reaching you

One tap, wherever you are.

Check-in requests reach you the way you prefer. Turn on more than one, so a dead battery or a full inbox never becomes a false alarm.

  • Email

    A short note with a link to an “I’m OK” button. No sign-in needed.

  • SMS

    A text with the same link. With a plan, SMS in procedure steps is included; regular check-in texts use SMS credits.

  • Push

    A notification on your phone (in the iPhone or Android app) or laptop. Tap it and you’re done.

Not just for family

For your work, too.

If you suddenly couldn’t answer, who would know where the keys are? A handover letter keeps your team, your clients and your company steady, without anyone guessing.

Developer access handover

Where credentials live, how to request password-manager emergency access, which repos, servers, domains and DNS a teammate needs to keep running.

Founder & business continuity

For a cofounder or partner: key clients and what’s due, outstanding invoices, who can sign at the bank, your accountant and lawyer.

Freelancer client handoff

Tell each client where their files, accounts and deliverables are, and who can finish the job, so nobody is left waiting.

2FA & crypto recovery pointers

Where recovery codes and hardware keys are kept, which wallet uses which backup method, and who holds the other half.

A woman smiling softly as she reads a handwritten letter by lamplight.

“It wasn’t sad to read. It sounded exactly like him, telling me where the spare key was, and that he was proud of me.”

What we hope every letter feels like
Trust & privacy

Built to keep a promise.

Your letters are the most private thing you’ll ever give us. We treat them that way.

Encrypted in transit and at rest

Your letters are stored encrypted and travel only over TLS.

Nothing leaves early

Letters are only sent at the final step of a procedure you designed. Never before.

No one reads them

We don’t read, analyse or sell your words. No ads, no trackers, no data brokers.

Always reversible

Check in at any point (or let a trusted contact vouch for you) and everything stops.

Pricing

One plan, renewed yearly. Or once, for life.

Check-ins and delivery run while your plan is active. You can set up your procedure, contacts and drafts for free first, and choose a plan when you’re ready.

Once

Lifetime

$99

once, no renewals

  • 100 email letters
  • 10 paper letters included (short, domestic, standard post)
  • Everything in the yearly plan
  • Nothing to renew, for the life of your account while the service operates
  • Longer or foreign paper letters: you pay only the difference
Start, then choose lifetime

One payment, by card or BLIK.

Up to 4 accounts

Family

$25

a year, for up to 4 people

  • You and up to 3 people you invite, each with their own account
  • Each account gets everything in the yearly plan
  • Letters of each person are delivered while the family plan is active
  • Everyone’s letters stay private, from you too
  • Up to 3 invitations can be accepted in total
Start, then invite your family

Renews yearly by card, or pay a year in advance.

Optional

Add-ons

Buy them in the app whenever you need them.

A year in advance $12/year
For BLIK and bank transfers: one payment for one year, no automatic renewal.
Paper letter pack $39 for 10
10 paper letters paid in advance: each covers a short domestic letter by standard post; other options pay only the difference. Credits don’t expire while your account exists.
Photo prints $4 per photo
A real 10x15 cm photo print, posted together with your paper letter (up to 5). Letters with photos are prepared by our team by hand.
SMS credits $5 for 50 SMS
An SMS with every regular check-in request, one credit each. With a plan, SMS in procedure steps is included.
Per letter

Paper letters

from $4.21

per letter, by Poczta Polska (Envelo)

  • Printed on A4 and posted to any address, in Poland or abroad
  • Regular or registered, with an optional return receipt
  • Black & white or color, from 1 to 98 sheets
  • On its own, or alongside the email version
  • Prepaid once, printed only if your procedure reaches delivery
  • Includes a video message, watched with a code printed in the letter
Calculate a price

Price: Envelo’s cost × 1.30 + $1.50 handling, plus the payment fee. The extra is a reserve for postal price rises.

Price a paper letter

About 33,600 characters of text, printed on both sides of A4.
Domestic rate within Poland.
Service

Your price

Envelo’s official price list, converted to USD, × 1.30 as a reserve for postal price rises, plus our $1.50 handling fee. You pay per letter, once, when you add paper delivery.

Questions

Things people ask us.

Something else on your mind? Write to hello@whenyougone.com.

Nothing dramatic. Your procedure starts with the gentle steps you chose: usually asking you again a day later, then again. You can check in at any point and the whole procedure is cancelled instantly. Most people choose several retries and a trusted contact before any letter could ever be sent.

Say it now. We’ll keep it safe.

It takes one quiet evening. Then it simply waits, and you carry on living.

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